By now, many of us have heard why sex after 50 should be better than it ever was before. But what if that’s not happening for you, personally? Well, there are tons of creative ways to spice up your sex life that could lead to some of the best sex of your life. To help you think outside the box (or, bed, in this case), we’ve gathered some clever ways to try for mind-blowing sex.
- Move beyond intercourse. For many of us, sex is limited strictly to intercourse. Thinking beyond that could really do wonders for your sex life though! Whether it’s oral sex or just manually stimulating one another, there’s a whole world worth exploring with your partner beyond penetration. Explore each other’s bodies and enjoy all of the stimulations your body has to offer.
- Incorporate toys. As our hormones and our bodies change with age, we may need a little extra help to achieve orgasm. That’s where toys come in! For women, we’d recommend trying out a clitoral vibrator (with or without a dildo) to spice up your sex life. For men, try a sleeve, prostate stimulator, or a penis ring to help inject a little excitement back into the bedroom. There’s nothing wrong with incorporating a little outside help. You might even find you regret waiting so long to try them out.
- Pose for the camera. We know that younger people seem to send each other pictures of their naked bodies more often than they call each other, but these saucy shoots aren’t just for twenty-somethings. Spice up your sex life with a little bedroom photo shoot! Whether you decide to hire a photographer for the occasion or just use your phone camera, these shoots can really give you a huge confidence boost. There are few things more empowering than realizing how sexy you are at this age. Own your sexuality, flaunt your body. It could give you the confidence you need to own things in the bedroom too. And just because you take these photos doesn’t mean you have to send them to anyone — they can be for your eyes only!
- Location, location, location. It’s not just the most important part of the real estate business — it’s also a great way to spice up your sex life! Couples who are looking to add a little zest into their love-making should consider leaving their bedrooms. Having sex in a new location can add exactly the thrill you’ve been seeking. So, whether it’s just moving things into the kitchen or somewhere much bolder (like a public restroom), try a change in scenery. It might do just the trick! Note: having sex in public can have criminal repercussions, so try this at your own risk.
- Do something you’ve always wanted to. It might sound like a no-brainer, but there’s no better time to start checking things off your sexual bucket list! We’ve always had the power to dramatically transform our sex lives, so it’s time to exercise that power. Whether you’ve always wanted to have a threesome, be tied up, or go to a sex club, now’s the time! As long as everything you try is safe and consensual, there’s no harm in trying. Only you have the power to spice up your sex life. So, help yourself.